Originally Posted by franchescasc
U know what kills me?? People get passes when they have affairs and cheat and lie. Why the hell can't I love openly and honestly?
Well you can do, but it would involve a great life change and you might not be able or willing to do that. So for now I would suggest letting yourself mourn the end of this relationship, whatever it is you need, tears, wine, ice cream, more tears, venting, wine, ice cream and more tears. It is ok to feel it.
Then when you are ready to open yourself up to love again, maybe look to people in similar circumstances, married or partnered people are often far more comfortable with the closet than single people (except those who really
don't want a primary relationship at all).