Originally Posted by lizzygirl2412
No judgement here... I agree!!
I'm so glad I spend most of my time on the road!!
Trying to stay positive or appear to be positive
I have a relationship with pessimism myself. It is based on the idea that it's a waste of energy to force optimism/positivity on oneself, sort of like swimming upstream against a strong current ( i like this analogy so i'm gonna run with it). Sometimes, you waste energy swimming upstream when you could ride the current downstream, get out, and walk back upstream to where you wanted to be.
However, if "being positive" comes easy to you and does not sap your energy, by all means you should continue to do what works.