It is exhausting because it is moving too fast. Let me put it like this. There is no good reason for touching my tooth brush or any hygiene products. Your husband is thinking with his penis. He has a shiny new vagina to play with, so of course he is going to call you a party pooper. She is probably trying to steal your husband and become the next wife. Is this by chance the woman you met while on the road, the woman your husband asked you to train after you discovered the affair, or someone entirely different from the two mentioned? I think you have a D/S relationship, but you still have the right to put your foot down and the right to say who you do or do not want to be involved with or when you want her out of the house.
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 12 years and father of our (3.5) children.