Originally Posted by Somegeezer
I think it's great that he's open to trying something new. He's been around you and the poly lot for so long, perhaps he's seeing how much good it really is to be open.
I don't understand why you feel down about it. I certainly don't understand why you'd feel you wanted to go the opposite direction, either.
My guess is oversaturation. You're putting too much work on yourself, for things you need not worry about. =]
yes. You're probably right. I think if I had a chance to heal from his having gone behind my back and breaking my trust then I feel more confident. I am left eith no choice but to go with it.