Two weeks and she is there long enough to be moving toothbrushes and stuff? I say slow down. It seems like you all are moving at an accelerated rate. Why? Would it kill anyone to slow down and oh say get to know her? At two weeks in, you are still interacting with the person's representative. There is no way the true colours have had time to emerge. Is she living in the home? If not, could you tell them both that you need time with your husband without her being around? Being together too much will grate on your nerves and make you want to hurt somebody. Have boundaries been established?
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 13 years and father of our four children.