Originally Posted by BoringGuy
Why did you ask, I would assume.
Originally Posted by redpepper
Mono has found someone he likes, is not cheating and we all know. I guess we will all be adjusting. Mostly me. He wanted to try poly out so here he is. Its better than the cheating but still hard for me. We are so not on the same path right now. He says its not about specific people but a shift in his thinking about his relationships. He tried doing it his way and it didn't work so now he's trying it my way. I guess we shall see what happens.
I think it's great that he's open to trying something new. He's been around you and the poly lot for so long, perhaps he's seeing how much good it really is to be open.
I don't understand why you feel down about it. I certainly don't understand why you'd feel you wanted to go the opposite direction, either.
My guess is oversaturation. You're putting too much work on yourself, for things you need not worry about. =]