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Old 05-05-2013, 07:55 PM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by lizzygirl2412 View Post
Making statements that she wishes she could have him all to herself.
I've not experienced the others, but Dude use to make comments to this effect. I think it has to do with the fact that we (as members of our culture) are "trained" that this is what our partner wants to hear.

I am the "hinge" in our MFM Vee and these statements didn't sit well with me...at all. So I told him he needed to stop that shit...and he did.

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