I keep saying it but there is a commonality in men IME who can't deal in the same way you can't deal, to tend to think of sex as something they do TO women and not something they do WITH women. Women don't do anything but receive (in their minds) and they want to be the only one being received. And yes, this as a effed up sexist attitude that implies that only men are sexually potent.
It also implies the pleasure women have is only real if they get is FROM a man and you don't want her having pleasure unless you get something out of it too.
And that women brought into this situation are not a threat because they are easily discarded and replaced. You might be fearing being discarded or replaced when it comes to men because you only see that as a possibility if your GF is with another man.
Last edited by Vinccenzo; 05-03-2013 at 07:17 PM.