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Old 05-03-2013, 04:04 AM
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For me I have the similar situation. I have been with my partner for 21 years starting when I was 15 too. When I found myself changing (or probably more honestly) when I accepted who I was, I ran into the same problem. I didn't want to lie or cheat on my partner but at the same time I really felt I had to be myself fully. For us, we did a lot of talking, a little screaming, a tiny bit of crying, and a bunch of laughing. Through this process we came up with guidelines that allow both of us to explore without running over or through our relationship. There are bumps sometimes but so far so good. Be yourself because every one else is taken--Harold and Maude
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