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Old 01-16-2010, 04:54 AM
StitchwitchD StitchwitchD is offline
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You can't make him feel guilty, he chooses to blame himself for you feeling hurt.

He can't make you feel secure, you need to work on that yourself.

What you both can do is own your feelings, talk about them, and focus on solving the problems, not blaming and defending.

(Yeah, we have a couple people around here who will feel like they're being blamed when a problem is being addressed, and will get all defensive, which is annoying because it does absolutely nothing to fix the issues at hand.)
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