Scissors-thank you! For real, this is the kind of feedback I'm looking for and I appreciate you taking the time to respond.
It is so important for me to remind myself tht MD is here because she wants to be here. She did say today that she was happy, she just hates hiding. I guess that's why I'm reading into that as meaning she couldn't possibly be happy long term if she already hates it. But maybe that's the sacrifice she's willing to make for the rest of this relationship that is good.
And yes, I want this to last. But no, I don't want to get ahead of myself. Time will tell.
franchescasc-33, bi female, likely monogomish formerly in triad relationship with:
FJ-36, married 15 yrs
MD-35, gf for 8 months
Currently dating SM, male, 40, monogamous