Originally Posted by flowerandroses
It's been a very rough 18 months, almost no intimacy anymore, the total mess.
Has the no intimacy changed? What was the issue? It's normal for the hormones to screw things up for a few years after birth, then add lack of sleep, stress and childcare, etc. Have you guys seen a marriage councilor? If not, I would suggest it as a way to strengthen your base before jumping off this bridge (make sure bungee cord is securely attached).