Originally Posted by lovefromgirl
I'd say the betrayal of trust would hurt more, actually. I don't care which act a partner lies about; the lie itself is the real knife between the ribs.
You're 10,000% right on this one Girl !
But in the context we were digging into, sexual indiscretion WAS being evaluated as that final breaking of trust for the purposes of discussion.
We (mate & myself) can both back you up completely on your statement about trust. It's the biggest knife & bloodiest wound. The point should have been made clearer that it's often (or usually) sex that ends up drawing that knife.
So glad you added that !