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Old 05-01-2013, 01:14 AM
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There's nothing wrong with asking for your space! She doesn't have to be at your place all the time, does she? Just because he has a gf and you all get along doesn't mean you don't deserve to have your own "me time" and privacy. Maybe something like that needs to be scheduled, like when people take "personal time off" from a job?
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