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Old 05-01-2013, 12:38 AM
dingedheart dingedheart is offline
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I think age and experience would be a factor. Advising some very young vs somebody very old and experienced.

The relationship of the person who you deemed incompetent. Meaning is there some self serving angle to motivating such intervention.

I guess I'm naturally against the idea that people need help making the right decisions in a relationship. It's there journey and were all free to fuck things up . Do people fall in love and marry the next day sure I think that's stupid ...yes ....but thats true freedom. Who am I to say they can't. Hey I've made plenty of mistakes ....I'm paying off a big one right now ....nre had nothing to do with it....but it still is my mistake. What if someone at the time tried to stop me . I doubt that would have ended pleasant for either of us. Hopefully I'll learn from it.

Saving people from themselves ...where does it stop ? Just NRE.
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