thanks for the warm welcome, y'all! we're still processing (pretty sure it won't stop any time soon), but learning at a rapid curve.
looking forward to maybe going to a poly bbq this weekend with my wife.
"I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." - Robert Heinlein