That's an interesting point BG.
I guess I tend to think that because it is my issue, I need to fix it. But it is very possible that there will come a point that despite the fact that I love him, I no longer like the person I'm becoming in the relationship.
It hasn't gotten there yet, but I hope I'll have the clarity to see that coming when it does.
Cleo - forties straight female
Ren - husband of 20 years
Bo - BF of 1+ year
Lou & Jane - Ren's girlfriends
Lin - Bo's other GF