I know what you meant
and thank you for coming back and clarifying. I shouldn't have even posted that comment as it was just me being a jerk and snarky towards Boring Guy. I have a bad habit of taking things out of context, taking them personal when I shouldn't, or giving them negative context unfairly. With written word I often fail to grasp the obvious, the things that are only subtlety mentioned because they are obvious typically go right over my head and it has taken me many years to find a balance of what is appropriate to write, and many days I am still off balance. That comment is only one of the ones I should not have posted yesterday. But I do hear you.