So Cal couple - looking into polyandry
Hello. My husband and I are looking into polyandry (m/f/m/m). We are 45 and 49; I am 45 & open to men also in their 40s who likes health and fitness, has self love, and loves others. We have been married for 26 years. Both semi-atheletic; i run 4-5 a week . We've gone to the swingers' lifestyle clubs 5 or 6 times, and it does not suit me really. We are both straight, but with most of the couples we've played with...the females got more excited to be with me rather than my DH every time; just not for me. plus, we are both looking for long term to life. I have always wanted multiple husbands since watching "Paint Your Wagon" when I was a kid; it's always been a turn-on...but of course that was Hollywood, and they can make anything look great.
So....this is just me, saying hi and that I am here to do the research. Not sure about timing, how to find an interested person(s), etc. If you have any suggestions or observations, please bring them on.