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Old 04-29-2013, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Nudibranch View Post
At present I am married to my best friend of nearly 25 years (married nearly 15), so well aligned, and a bit over a year ago we added a friend...
Adding a third always sounds so couple-centric. I like your post except for the concept suggested by this phrase.
We aren't normal, by the way, but not because we are three. We are not normal because we have successful, calm, productive, mature, mutually supportive, deeply caring, interrelating devoid of drama and gaming.
That's great. Would you want to share how you began and continued to be so drama-free and respectful for the past year? Did you only become open when this friend came to you and suggested/requested a triad?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

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me: Mags, female, pansexual, poly, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, poly, 37
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