As a counterpoint to my last post, I really enjoyed this essay that addresses how things can be taken too far, sometimes by submissive people themselves, towards not taking their needs into consideration: http://www.notjustbitchy.com/submissive-robot/
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.