Yes I 'feel' like he cheated. Yes I am wounded by his gloating. However, he is not malicious and I don't think he ever intended to hurt me. I think he fell in love before he realized the situation had changed into something different than what we agreed upon. One cannot help falling in love. What I am struggling with is how I respond to that. I want him to be happy, therefore I do not want to impose 'limitations'. However, I cannot ignore my own happiness. I am also struggling with his inability to see things from my perspective. It's like we've lost our ability to effectively communicate.