I never had a problem with him having sex with other women. It's what has come of it. Her or me.... We had both agreed when this was all over (before she had left) that we made a mistake getting involved with a friend and wouldn't do that again.
He is always talking about hypotheticals, and it hurts to hear them. They are always him with her because there is know reason to discuss us because he knows our relationship works.
He just asked me if I would come to their wedding in two yrs if they got married. I said no because it would be too painful. He then asked me, It would too painful after two year? I said yes, she has taken my life away. Why would I want to sit through what should of been mine? He said I was being silly and that wasn't true.