Thread: Poly or not?
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Old 06-16-2009, 07:39 PM
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I agree mono! If anything close to poly is to come out of this affair then it would start with the three of you sitting down together in a private place away from anyones home. A neutral place. Boundries should be explored, feelings expressed etc. From what it sounds, he may not agree to this and she may not either, but that could be your ultimatum. I would think there would be big changes for all of you if you all met. I try to get that part done as soon as possible to make sure everyone is comfortable and feels loved and respected.
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