Originally Posted by MeeraReed
And when, exactly, would you have time to see this primary partner?
An excellent point! Though, of course, I could, if I chose, pine away about the fact that none of my current secondary relationships are poised to become primary relationships. I actually did feel sad about that for a while with Gia. Then Davis and I actually tried it and it didn't work out, mainly because I didn't actually want it. And now there's Clay, with whom I don't see it as a plausible outcome, and am not inclined to seek it... I think maybe I'm getting better at accepting things for what they are.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.