NutBusterX you took the words right out of my mouth...
I will still say congrats on all your successes thus far. Leaving a spouse or S/O can be dificult and takes much courage. Add to the mix children and financial difficulty and I say you kicked A##. Take credit for all the positive changes you have made. In light of a minor setback you are going in the right direction, and I applaud you.
I have found this is a great, supportive and positive site. There are some good people who will answer your questions and assist you as you navigate your relationships. Best of luck as always!