Long-time lurker here that is attempting to join the conversations rather than just read them. I am a male that has identified as poly for eleven years. I am married to a woman that likes poly in theory and in practice but is a little more inhibited by the dominant culture. I have been in many duos and one triad. I am entering now into a new relationship and find that like-minded people are needed for me to feel grounded and approach this new part of my life with a loving intention rather than fear.