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Old 04-25-2013, 01:06 AM
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When Peaches first mentioned poly to me, I think I felt something similar.
For me, though, the fear went away when I fell for someone else. I realised that me loving someone else didn't change my love for Peaches not one bit. And that I couldn't really tell who I loved best. That each love was unique and couldn't compare.

So I figured if Peaches ever fall in love with another person, it will be the same: He'll forever love me just as much as he loves me now, and I'll always be special to him in a unique way no one else can. Just as he and CC are to me.

That's all I can say with my (little) experience in poly. I hope it helps, tought.
And I don't think any fear is silly. You should pay atention and vallue what you feel, and take things slow if necessary. Talk to him about, too. I'm sure he'll undestand.
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