Yes, I have talked to both of them and they know how I feel.
Which is kind of why I joined this message board: They hear how I feel, but they don't really "know" how I feel. Because they have never really had to deal with being the "odd man out" because of a demanding school or work schedule.
And I guess i'm just looking for someone who can empathize with me and just tell me that I am not alone. I just need to hear that I am not the only one going through this.
I feel like I don't want to bombard them with these "i'm all alone" feelings every single week, and right now I feel like thats what I am doing. They don't say it because they are pretty great like that but I wanted to find another outlet...