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Old 04-23-2013, 11:35 PM
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Hello dragonfire613,
Welcome to our forum.

I don't know that there are any quick or easy answers, or anything that will make the upcoming weekend "okay." Usually polyamory is something you have to get used to a little at a time.

You should know that polyamory and open relationships (or anything involving at least three people) come in many shapes and sizes. There is a book you might consider reading: "Opening Up," by Tristan Taormino.

On this site, you might want to check out the Life stories and blogs board. It is all about ordinary people and the way poly works (or sometimes doesn't work) in their lives. The site also has search and tag search functions.

I hope you and your wife will take things slow and work things out in your own marriage. It sounds like there is a lot of fix-it work to do.

We'll help on this site however we can.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
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