Originally Posted by cjj23464
It definitely started as an affair. There have been others, and they have been married as well. She is single. I don't think he anticipated the degree of emotion he experienced this time. At this point, I would welcome meeting with her, but I don't think she would be as open to it. He says he suggested it once, and she got rather upset. Of course he could just be saying what he thinks i want to hear...
Your husband's actions are in no way indicative of the honesty, consideration and love that polyamorous or any relationship should have. He is very lucky to to still have you in his life. You deserve better. I hope others include thier comments as this could be it's own seperate thread. Put yourself first in this please, no one else is going to apparently.