There isn't so much a lack of honesty as, he didnt want to bring it up much if
the chemistry wasn't there and nothing really produced. We got her
permission to at least start a conversation and possibly an intimate
relationship if it developes.
She is the one who said she didnt want the details. T and I never thought we would have the attraction that we have now. It was the right thing to do to let her know the relationship was progressing, and that we are exploring different things (i.e the trip)
T does not speak openly to E about me
The above statement was at E's request not at his withholding. T and I enjoy the fact we can communicate openly she, on the other hand, doesnt want that open communication.
If you see a better way we/he could handle it, im open to suggestions.