My husband and I used to swing and engage in casual sex before meeting my now live in bf and two other partners. I don't any more as I never liked it or felt comfortable with it. I don't blossom into a healthy sexual person in such circumstances. I have in the committed relationships I am now in.
The first thing I find out from new loves is their personal take on swinging and if they are interested in casual sex I won't date people who are swingers or engage in casual sex.
I have a number of friends who are into it all. I find it to be a complete turn off. As much as I've tried to get the appeal I just can't. Each to their own though. There are people who fit my life and people who don't.
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Last edited by redpepper; 04-26-2013 at 05:30 AM.