Originally Posted by Mark1npt
is it customary to start making out with some chick the first poly event you go to?
First off, i didn't say anything about making out. There was no making out, just some cuddling, and light kissing.
Secondly, it happened after at least 4 hours of all 3 of us in a little cubby/alcove-y type area talking, and getting to know one another.
Lastly, I'm sorry if this isn't the way that you do poly, bu as they say a lot on this forum, there's no one way to do it right.