I don't think the secondary BoR was intended as a comprehensive guide to ethical nonmonogamy.
Oh wait. I just realized that that essay DOES come from xeromag's site. I thought it was written on here and referenced by the other site.
Yeah, franklin uses provocative language for sure. I would take what you can use and disregard the rest. I really wish that people would not let him do their thinking for them. It isn't so much that i disagree with his writing, it's that i find it gross how others propagate it as a meme and it becomes part of "poly popular culture" that way.
Do not ever believe that just because it's on xeromag or morethantwo, that it must be "true".