interesting and thought provoking.
I am someones primary, I am someones secondary, I have a secondary, I am metamour to my primary partner's secondary.
Is it just me or are there other people reading this who don't feel they have the 'right' to ANYTHING?
Who gives me this right?
It's just really... puzzling to me that someone would describe these things (which to me sound like things you would prefer to happen, wants, desires, preferences), as 'rights'.
early forties, straight.