Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
I had casual encounters before I married or knew of poly. But I can't get off in that dynamic. So-no desire to repeat.
I like casual sex, but I rarely orgasm with a stranger. Even friends that I know and really like can't make me climax. I liked swinging cause of the rush and the fun sex I could have with my husband afterwards.
Me: Late 20's "hinge" to a V. New to Poly but previous swinger for roughly 4 years. Married since 2008 but together since 2007.
Husband: Mid 30's. Maybe Poly but not monogamous. Swinger.
Beaner: My recent ex and my first poly relationship.