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Old 04-21-2013, 11:36 PM
BoringGuy BoringGuy is offline
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This seems more about affirming these things to oneself and one's established/primary partner(s) than it is about declaring one's "rights" to some hypothetical "secondary". i too am married, and if i came at my other partner (with whom, recall, i have been with for longer than married) with this checklist, they would get a kick out of it; but if i came at a potential new relationship partner with it, i would totally understand if they were all like "WTF?" or didn't want to get in the middle of all that. Of course, i have been told by others that spouse and i seem to have an unusually "independent" relationship for people who are married, whatever that means.
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