I am neither angry or upset. I am heart broken. Cause for her to be happy, she has to be poly. For me to be happy, she has to be mono. I am well aware of this already. I made this thread to give me more options and more points of views so I could go a route that didn't end in divorce, not to be singled out as narrow minded and angry. Luckily, I have gotten some great PM's that I have been very thankful for their insight.
Either way, my mind has already been made and this thread is now mute. Thank you again for your replies though.