Originally Posted by Cutiepie
I do feel second class. I dont want to walk away
I don't mean to be harsh, but...are you hoping someone will have the magic bullet?
You have talked to them. It sounds as if they've been pretty clear that what you're getting is what you're going to continue to get. So, despite living in a world with 7 billion books along the lines of How to Talk so People Will Listen
and How to Get What You Want in Every Situation,
and so on, the truth is, we cannot control other people.
They've told you what they're going to continue doing. Your choice now is to keep feeling hurt and frustrated, figure out how to love being the third wheel who never gets alone time, or walk away. Walking away will hurt in the short run, but you'll be happier in the long run.
Think hard about where you want to be ten years from now. Still living like this?