NYCindie is from NY City. New Yorkers cuss. It can seem aggressive to people from other areas.
"Slanging match" might be a common idiom in a different geographical area.
We are all here to ask for help, or to attempt to help. Assume positive intent.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 36), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years