I am not surprised he isn't interested in sex. I think focusing on cuddling, kissing, hugging is enough for now. And talking... talking needs to happen a lot more. I hope the open talking about feelings, emotions, boundaries, needs and desires in therapy eventually melds over into daily life as well.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 58, living with:
miss pixi, 37, who is dating (NRE):
my bf: Ginger, 61, married to:
Robin, 60 (mono)
and dating (NRE): Carla and David, married couple, early 40s