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Old 04-17-2013, 04:58 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by elle View Post
Sounds fun.
...- I am also a woman with two men (both pretty mono men too) and I often wonder, does that sort of thing ever work out for long?
Define "long" ...we've been together in our cohabitating MFM Vee for two years.

I am also a woman with two men - one of whom, my husband MrS, is probably at least mono-ish (he likes it that girls can flirt with him and that he can flirt back, he likes knowing that IF he connected with someone he COULD pursue it...but in 20 years he hasn't, one of these days he might surprise me though). Dude is probably poly (although he never heard the word until he met me) but hasn't dated (or slept with) anyone since the very early days when I was getting to know him.

I'll let you know in 10 or 20 more years how it all turned out.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (23+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (4+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
Lotus: "it's complicated"
SLeW: platonic girlfriend + BFF
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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