"still wants to blame me or more so blame my bf"
Blame you for what? What is it that's making him so upset, exactly? Can he articulate it?
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.