Originally Posted by Manifestiny
"oh, it's not worth explaining anyway"...or "it doesn't matter because you like her anyway".
Passive aggressive comments like this piss me off! Dealing with passive aggressive personalities takes re-arranging your brain to get a straight answer and figure out where the real problem lies. My husband is extremely passive aggressive and it was a real eye opener once I started reading up on how to deal with this type of personality. I recognize the signs and am now able to call him on his bs and then adjust my reactions accordingly. I wish I had been clued into some of this stuff 20 years ago, would have saved a great deal of grief.
Here's a good article on jealousy http://www.xeromag.com/fvpolyrefrigerator.html