Originally Posted by Pol
Thank you for pointing out my selfishness, my manipulation, my dishonesty. These are things that I will grapple with, but do not plan to do so publicly.
I don't blame you, it is hard sometimes to take criticism from people who only know one facet of your personality. When we have problems and are emotional about something, we don't always put our best foot forward, I made many mistakes in my past poly relationships and I have no doubt I behaved badly, I hope I have also learnt from those experiences and will therefore be a better partner in the future.
I am glad you are getting counselling and wish you all the best in the future.