I am a sub myself and to me the D/s dynamic is all about trust and honesty.
My thought are with you, and what I think of him and his way of behaving is not proper to post.
hang in there and remember, without trust there is no consensual and sane BDSM relationships
the truth is out there..... I only know my side of the story as I see it, it is not the full story or the final truth of things
Kay: tall, lesbian, poly
A: my wife, bi, poly
M: Kay's GF, poly