there is straightforward, unambiguous, and effective communication; people express clearly their needs, make specific requests, and avoid hidden "read between the lines" communication
Again-much like a previous thought, it's imperative for us to KNOW ourselves AND all that surrounds us. If any one person doesn't make themselves known
(by not expressing their needs or being vague in requests or forcing others to try to read their minds for ANY reason)
they cause the demise of the others KNOWING them, and therefore they cause the demise of the relationship.
GENERALLY when people DO that, it's because they don't WANT to truly know themselves-and in that they are causing their own demise and everyone else's as well AND they aren't taking full responsibility for their own needs either.