WTF are you talking about? This thread has been a discussion to clarify the background for specific reactions to certain fantasies, terminology, patterns that have been seen here time and again, and to explain definitions used in any poly forum. No one was jumping all over anyone. People asked questions or made statements and other people answered and explained. That is all.
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