Originally Posted by Dirtclustit
So while ManofDiscovery, I am sure is trying to help, that type of talk can be deleterious. It makes people afraid of the Truth, which between spouses such a fear can mean death of the relationship.
You can't get more truthful than to say that the relationship cannot be the same again. And yes, in these situations there is a very real risk of the relationship ending if one party wants to go in one direction and the other wants to go a different way.